3 Agustus 2010

10 Sebab Jangan Bercinta dengan Suami Orang Lain

1. SI DIA TIDAK AKAN BERANI MEMBUAT SEMBARANGAN KOMITMEN DENGAN KAMU

Seorang lelaki yang tidak bahagia dalam rumah tangganya, pasti akan merasa amat gembira dengan kehadiran kamu(wanita), apalagi dia merasa dirinya mendapatkan sepenuh perhatian yang mungkin tidak diperoleh dari isterinya sendiri. Pasti setiap waktunya dia akan merasakan rasa sangat bahagia berada di sisi kamu. Ini mungkin kelihatan seperti komitmen terhadap masa depan terhadap kamu. Tetapi, percayalah, itu hanyalah kata-kata manis sekejab saja untuk mendapatkan cinta kamu(wanita) saja!

2. SANGGUP MENIPU ISTERINYA

Sikapnya yang tak jujur terhadap isterinya sendiri sudah cukup untuk dijadikan bukti jelas kepada kamu sikap sebenar si dia yang tak jujur. Dia sanggup mencari hiburan di luar rumah apabila mendapati ada masalah atau perkara yang tidak memuaskan hatinya di rumah, tanpa cuba untuk mengatasi masalah itu. Tambahan pula, kamu menjadi punca sebenar si dia menipu kepada isterinya. Ingat, si dia mungkin akan mengulangi sikap menipu ini terhadap kamu apabila kamu berdua menghadapi masalah dalam perhubungan kamu kelak.

3. HUBUNGAN SECARA SULIT

Merahsiakan sesebuah perhubungan itu sememangnya suatu perkara yang meletihkan. Melibatkan diri di dalam perhubungan sulit seperti ini akan membuatkan kamu kehilangan keyakinan diri kerana kamu akan ketinggalan dalam pelbagai aspek perhubungan yang indah. Kamu tidak boleh berjalan berdua-duaan dengan bebas dan bangga. Ini kerana kamu akan sentiasa diselubungi oleh perasaan takut dan bimbang. Takut orang lain terlihat kamu berdua-duaan lalu mengadu kepada isteri si dia. Mati kamu kena serang!

4. LELAKI LEBIH BERUNTUNG

Apa yang dimaksudkan di sini, dia dianggap lebih bertuah dalam masa yang sama tetap mempunyai sebuah keluarga yang akan tetap menyayanginya. Sebaliknya dalam diam kamu pula yang mengalami “kerugian” kerana terpaksa berkongsi kasih dengan keluarganya yang sah. Bayangkan, kamu tidak boleh menemaninya ke majlis-majlis formal kerana sudah pasti dia akan membawa isterinya. Kamu hanyalah sebagai teman di kala ingin mengubat kesunyian atau mencari hiburan jika ada masalah di rumah saja! Kamu kena ingat, mereka boleh berkahwin lebih daripada empat!

5. MAMPUKAH KAMU MENCINTAINYA?

Persoalannya, apakah kamu masih sanggup menersukan perhubungan dengan seorang lelaki yang tidak jujur dan tidak hormat kepada isterinya? Dengan menjalinkan perhubungan secara sulit dengan kamu sudah jelas menunjukkan bahawa dia menganggap perempuan mudah untuk dipikat dan diperlakukan sewenang-wenangnya. Jika dia benar-benar menyayangi dan jujur dengan isterinya, sudah pasti dia sanggup berterus-terang. Alasan untuk tidak melukai hati isterinya bukannya alasan yang kukuh memandangkan dia sememangnya sudah melukai hati isterinya di saat dia menjalinkan hubungan dengan wanita lain!

6. SI DIA AKAN HILANG HORMAT TERHADAP KAMU

Jangan terkejut! Walaupun dia yang jatuh cinta pada kamu dan menarik minat kamu, di dalam hati lelakinya dia pasti akan pandang rendah terhadap wanita seperti kamu yang mudah terpedaya dengan kata-kata lelaki sepertinya. Siapa tahu, mungkin pada awalnya dia sekadar nak “test market” saja. Tak sangka pula kamu benar-benar terpikat. Lelaki pula, mana yang sanggup menolak tuah kan? Dalam keadaan seperti inilah yang selalunya akan timbul soal dipermainkan.

7. PEMUSNAH RUMAH TANGGA ORANG LAIN

Ingat ! Sebagai wanita, kamu seharusnya lebih memahami perasaan dan naluri kaum sejenis kamu. Dengan menjalinkan hubungan dengan suami wanita lain, menunjukkan bahawa kamu tidak menghormati hak kaum kamu sendiri. Bayangkan jika hak kamu diganggu atau cuba dirampas oleh orang lain? Sebaliknya ada pula yang sanggup berkomplot dengan si lelaki untuk menipu isterinya. Ingat, jika hari ini kamu mengambil hak orang lain, tak mustahil orang lain pula akan mengambil hak kamu suatu hari nanti! Renungkan!

8. KAMU MENIPU DIRI SENDIRI

Si dia sentiasa mengucapkan kata-kata manis pada kamu tetapi masih tidak menamatkan perhubungannya dengan isterinya dan pada masa yang sama masih tidak memulakan perhubungan yang sah dengan kamu. Inilah yang dikatakan sebagai “Action that speak louder than words” (pandai cakap tapi buatnya tidak!)

9. BERWASPADALAH DENGAN “BOOMERANG KESALAHAN”

Kebanyakan orang tak kira sama ada wanita tau lelaki mempunyai sikap sukar untuk bertanggungjawab terhadap keputusan dan tindakan yang mereka lakukan secara terburu-buru. Manusia lebih mudah untuk mencari kesalahan orang lain daripada menanggung malu. Jika perbuatan si dia diketahui oleh isterinya atau saudara-mara, jangan terkejut jika dia menyalahkan kamu lalu membuatkan kamu terpaksa menanggung segala derita. Haiiiii Kasih ke mana, sayang ke mana. Tinggal kamu seorang yang menderita !

10. MASA ITU EMAS! DAN KAMU TIDAK SEPATUTNYA MENSIA-SIAKANNYA

Hubungan dengan lelaki yang telah berkahwin boleh berlanjutan selama beberapa tahun. Sedar tak sedar, usia kamu semakin meningkat. Apabila kamu sudah tua baru kamu sedar yang kamu terjerat dan tak boleh melarikan diri lagi. Jika boleh melarikan diri pun, kamu sudah tidak tahu apa yang patut kamu lakukan. Terasa begitu lama kamu mempersiakan zaman muda kamu menjalinkan hubungan yang TAK BERMAKNA!Renung-renungkanlah sejauh mana kebenaran di sebalik apa yang cuba disampaikan.


Namun , jika sedia mampu dari segi zahir dan batin , mampu memimpin kamu dari rohani dan bab agama , isteri tak mampu memberi zuriat , isteri gagal tunaikan tanggung jawab...cuba fikirkan......namun yang sah apabila kamu di akad nikah.....dengan wali yang sah .....Allah yang memilih insan tersebut untuk berkhawin 1...2...3.. 4 ....jika di takdirkan kamu menjadi isteri ke 2....3 , maka kena redha dengan ketetapan Allah kerana jodoh , ajal maut , rezeki dan jodoh bukan anda yang menentukan.

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